I have been thinking about wether or not Im aromantic a lot recently. I’m never quite sure if i count because I want to do things that are considered romantic but my actual attraction to people I do romantic things with doesnt really differ from other people like when I think about my feelings for my best friend and my feelings for other friends nothing is really different to me I love them in the same way the feelings feel the same the only real difference is my comfort level I’m more comfortable with my best friend than other friends but if my other friends wanted to go on “dates” or wanted me to buy them flowers or to kiss them I wouldn’t necessarily be opposed because why not they are my friends and I love them so if they want me to show that in a different way than I do now that would be okay but what does that mean for me label wise like I assume im aromantic because the only distinction to me for a romantic relationship and a platonic relationship is the name there is no difference in emotions or feelings so that would make me assume Im aro but i just I dont know I never seem to fit in to aro spaces or into alloromantic spaces and maybe that has more to do with the fact that I am pretty succinctly allosexual (at least most of the time) anyways thats all my thoughts at the moment about my maybe aromantic self
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